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ON NIGERIAN WRITERS, DEPRESSION & SUICIDE…

<body><div class&equals;"booster-block booster-read-block">&NewLine; <div class&equals;"twp-read-time">&NewLine; &Tab;<i class&equals;"booster-icon twp-clock"><&sol;i> <span>Read Time&colon;<&sol;span>3 Minute&comma; 44 Second <&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine; <&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>It has now become a common and accepted part of our daily existence to hear of the death&comma; by suicide&comma; of one writer or another every now and then&period; Each time the news of another loss filters into social media sphere&comma; we are often quick to say <em>&OpenCurlyQuote;eeeya’ <&sol;em>or <em>&OpenCurlyQuote;he&sol;she gave many hints’<&sol;em> and then move on to other important things&period; This&comma; sadly&comma; is all we can do in most instances&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>The frequent deaths by suicide have led to the idea that writers are mostly suicidal&comma; because of their craft&period; In other words&comma; writing can increase a person’s tendency to commit suicide&period; You can easily perceive this from the nature of comments on notices following a writer’s death&period; But <strong>I do not think that writers have a propensity for self-harm simply because they write<&sol;strong>&period; This&comma; to me&comma; is not the case&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>In my own opinion&comma; many people discover writing after suffering some physical or psychological discomfort that they want to talk about&period; It may be rape&comma; poverty&comma; failure&comma; rejection&comma; dashed expectations&comma; job losses&comma; etc&period; These people&comma; perhaps due to their social circumstances&comma; cannot find a voice loud enough to reach the audience they want&comma; or they feel no one is willing to listen or able to hear them&period; Then they discover writing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Writing is a remarkable gift&period; It is a treasure easy to discover&period; The depressed find it too&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p><strong><em>Writing gives anyone and every one an avenue or platform to say anything and everything openly and yet secretly&comma; loudly and yet silently&comma; anonymously and yet signed&comma; factually and yet fictionally&period; <&sol;em><&sol;strong>So those who have something to say&comma; and have failed to find an audience&comma; find in writing the platform and an audience that is effective and cheap&period; And that is how many become writers&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Thus&comma; many writers <em>– especially those that we have lost to suicide –<&sol;em> were most likely depressed&comma; or at least troubled&comma; before they chose the path of the pen&period; They did not find depression because they started to write&semi; they started to write because they were depressed&period; Suicide did not seek them out because they are writers&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>I can use myself as an example&period; Why did I start writing&quest; My earliest poems were not attractive&colon; they were neither rhythmic not lyrical&period; They were bare&comma; angry and coarse&period; I remember the title of the first poem I wrote&comma; <em>BASTARD&comma; <&sol;em>emerged off a true life experience that is still as real and painful at it was when I wrote that poem in 2002&period; <strong>I found in writing&comma; especially poetry&comma; an avenue to express all my frustrations and anger&period; <&sol;strong>Many times I created characters in my fictions to serve the justice I did not get in real life&period; Other times I create a world that I fell mine should have been&period; I even wrote a whole collection of poetry about being depressed&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>The argument that writers’ tendency to be more sensitive to the salient issues of life&semi; that they see life in 3D or even 4D&semi; that they look at life’s underbelly&semi; that their minds strip the colours of life until it is just black and white&comma; and that these may lead them to dangerous pondering that erodes the mind is tenable&period; I would also agree that this perception and pondering of the hidden things beneath the surface of life could sometimes overwhelm and lead to depression&period; However&comma; it does not happen because they are writers&period; The opposite is the case&comma; in my opinion&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>It is our reality that many young people romanticize suicide these days&period; They make it look glorious and rhapsodical in writing&comma; much like the fame that criminals get in American media&semi; we eulogize suicide victims so much that other young people feel tempted to get that glory&comma; that final attention we did not afford them hitherto&period; This is one of the biggest challenges&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<blockquote class&equals;"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow"><p><strong>We should&comma; therefore&comma; begin to look at solutions for troubled people&period; In doing this&comma; we must be clear that the issues to be tackled push young people&comma; not just writers&comma; into depression and suicide&period; <&sol;strong><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Parents and guardians need to perceive their wards’ spoken and unspoken communications&period; Siblings&comma; friends and acquaintances need to continually measure each other’s psychological temperatures and raise alarm when the abnormal is observed&period; Above all&comma; everyone must learn to practice self-censorship because <strong>the content we consume matters a lot<&sol;strong>&colon; Luke 6&colon;45b captures it well&comma; <em>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;For it is out of the abundance of the heart that the 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&OpenCurlyQuote;WHAT CAN WORDS DO&quest;’ and &OpenCurlyQuote;I SAID THESE WORDS’&comma; is an award-winning Nigerian writer&comma; photographer&comma; and media professional with experience in journalism&comma; PR&comma; publishing and media management&period; In 2016&comma; he was listed in Nigerian Writers Awards' list of 100 MOST INFLUENTIAL NIGERIAN WRITERS UNDER 40&period; The same year 2016&comma; he won the Nigerian Writer’s Award for &OpenCurlyQuote;Best Poet In Nigeria 2015&period;’ he had also won the Orange Crush 1st Prize for Poetry in 2012&period; &NewLine;He is the CEO of Words Rhymes &amp&semi; Rhythm LTD&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"be-author-meta be-author-email">&NewLine; <a href&equals;"mailto&colon;&percnt;20kukogho&period;samson&commat;gmail&period;com" class&equals;"booster-url-link">&NewLine; <span class&equals;"booster-svg-icon booster-svg-envelope"><svg class&equals;"booster-svg" aria-hidden&equals;"true" role&equals;"img" 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